switch your mentality from “i’m broken and helpless” to “i’m growing and healing” and watch how fast your life changes, for the better.
fl0werrr--child: Girl I'm still fcked up over my ex and we broke up 2 years ago. Homeboy cheated on me and is even dating the female he cheated on me with. I feel like I can't form a connection like I had with him with anyone else tho.. I love him and I feel stupid as hell but it's the truth.I’m sorry that happened and that you had to go through that but best believe you’re healing yourself without even knowing. Heal at your own pace…there’s no rush to get into another relationship or “talking” stage with anyone. No need to be bitter or hold hate in your heart - yes it hurts but you’re only hurting yourself more by forcing yourself to establish the same connection you had with him with a brand new person. Let time take over. If another girl can take him from you, he was not yours and that’s not a boy you want in your life because if she can take him, I’m sure anyone can.
threeeyesoneheart: Do you have any tips for moving on from feelings?You can’t run away from feelings. It’s best to keep it 100 with yourself and confront your feelings more than anything. When you confront your feelings you just become more in touch with who you are instead of trying to cover up your true self. Moving on from anything takes a lot of love, good energy around you, forgiveness, prayer, healing time and allowing yourself to be vulnerable with yourself but not what you’re trying to move on from.
““Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.””— Allen Saunders (via naturaekos)
“I’m still learning to love myself. It’s hard when, “You’re not good enough,” is all you’ve ever known.”— tara love
